Berpikir Sebelum Mengkritik Orang Lain

Kita harus pintar-pintar untuk membedakan mana kritik yang membangun dan mana yang ingin menjatuhkan kita. Setiap orang berhak mengeluarkan pendapatnya masing-masing, dan berhak untuk menyukai dan tidak menyukai sesuatu.  

Ketika ada kritik atau pendapat tentang sesuatu dari diri kita, bila itu sama sekali bukan untuk membangun diri kita, abaikanlah. Jangan biarkan semua itu mempengaruhi dan merenggut kebahagiaan serta rasa percaya diri dalam diri kita.  

Masih banyak dari kita yang hanya bisa memberikan kritik, dan itupun hanya melihat dari satu sisi tanpa mempertimbangkan betapa beratnya proses yang harus dilalui. Bila kita ingin menilai orang lain, nilailah secara adil, jangan hanya melihat hasil akhir tetapi juga melihat bagaimana proses yang harus dilalui untuk mencapai hasil tersebut. Semoga kita semua bisa lebih bijak dalam memberikan dan menanggapi kritik dari orang lain.  

“There’s a story behind every person. There’s a reason why they’re the way they are. Thing about that before you judge someone.”
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“Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” – Mother Teresa

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